“A suicide attempt is not ‘attention seeking behaviour’, it is ALWAYS a cry for help.” – Jennifer Nurick It can feel confronting to sit with someone who is feeling suicidal. We are holding their pain while also managing our own …
When You Can’t See How Far You’ve Come
When you’re in the middle of change, it can be hard to see how far you’ve come. The shifts might feel small, but over time they add up. Someone who meets you weekly can often see them more clearly than …
When Three Triggers in 24 Hours Brought My Six-Year-Old Self Forward
This week, I had a few things happen within a 24-hour period that triggered a younger part of me that says, “I’m in trouble.” I haven’t felt this part of me for ages, so it came as a surprise. I …
When a Fight Is Spiralling Out of Control, Do This
When a fight starts spiralling, it’s easy to say things you don’t mean or shut down completely. What your nervous system needs in that moment is safety, and the quickest way to get there is to slow down, take a …
Suicide Warning Signs: What to Look For and How to Help
If you’re worried someone might be thinking about ending their life, you cannot afford to ignore the signs. Warning signs matter. Knowing what to look for and reaching out when you are concerned can save a life. Many people believe …
Understanding Suicide: The Urge Can Pass
This week, I read something that stopped me in my tracks. Twenty-nine people who survived jumping from the Golden Gate Bridge all said the same thing. The moment they jumped, they regretted it. In another study, Dr. Freedenthal found that …
Suicide in Australia: Why We Need to Keep Talking About It
Trigger warning. Over the next few days, I’ll be talking openly about suicide. Looking at the statistics is confronting. If suicide rates are any measure of how we’re doing as a community when it comes to mental health, we have …
When Your Pain Feels “Too Much” for Others
Have you ever been in so much pain that you wanted to reach out… but stopped yourself? Because you didn’t want to be “too much,” or felt like a burden to the people you love? This is such a lonely …
Infidelity Indecision: When Your Heart and Mind Are at War
Discovering a betrayal can leave you spinning in a storm of uncertainty. One moment you’re furious and ready to leave. The next, you’re longing for the connection you once had. This is infidelity indecision — the painful space where your …
Couples Can Heal After Betrayal: What the Research Shows
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) is considered the gold standard for healing attachment injuries — the deep breaks in trust and connection that betrayals create. EFT research consistently shows that 70–75% of couples who complete therapy move from distress to secure …