The path to repair is tender and complex — but it is possible with commitment from both partners. The first step is acknowledging the wound. The hurt partner needs their pain to be seen, validated, and cared for. Without this, …
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Healing After Betrayal: Reclaiming Yourself When a Partner Has Cheated
When you discover a partner has cheated, it can feel like the ground has been pulled out from under you. Betrayal shakes your sense of safety, your self-worth, and your trust in the world. If you’ve chosen to leave the …
Why Discovering Your Partner Cheated Is a Trauma
Discovering that a partner has cheated is a trauma. Even if there was no physical harm, your entire sense of safety and reality is shaken. What you believed to be true — about your relationship, your partner, and even yourself …
Triggers Aren’t Always Loud — Understanding How Trauma Lives in the Body
Triggers are not always loud or obvious. Sometimes, they’re quiet. Subtle. Unexpected.A smell, a song, a comment.A date on the calendar.A certain look or tone of voice. Suddenly, your heart races. Your stomach tightens.You feel overwhelmed — and maybe even …
How to Heal From Being the Scapegoat in Your Family
If you were the scapegoat in your family, I want you to know — it was never your fault. You were blamed, criticised, or labelled the problem not because of who you are, but because your family system needed someone …
If You Were Scapegoated in Your Family, Please Read This
If you were scapegoated in your family, you likely learned to doubt your own perception. You were blamed for things that weren’t your fault. Treated as the problem — while everyone else avoided their own pain. You may have been …
Healing Doesn’t Mean You Stop Getting Triggered
We often think healing means no longer getting triggered — but that’s not true. A powerful shift happens when you’re in a trigger and, instead of spiralling into shame or self-judgment, you meet yourself with compassion. You notice what’s happening.You …
The Scapegoat: Understanding the Most Misunderstood Role in the Family
In some families, one child is subtly (or overtly) assigned the role of the scapegoat — the one who is blamed, criticised, or pathologised more than the others. This dynamic allows the rest of the family to avoid looking at …
The Black Sheep: When a Child Carries the Weight of the Whole Family
Sometimes, when there are unresolved issues in a parental relationship, the focus shifts away from the adults and onto the child. Instead of facing the tension or conflict between them, parents may begin to over-focus on one child. The child’s …
Triangulation: When a Child Is Drawn Into Their Parents’ Conflict
When conflict exists between two adults — often parents — and remains unresolved in a healthy way, a child can be drawn into the tension. This is called triangulation. It typically begins with an unspoken or unresolved conflict in the …