Hi! I’m Jen. I’m so glad you’re here.
I’m a licensed clinical psychotherapist, couple counsellor and energetic healer who uses an integrated, and personalised process for helping individuals and couples heal from attachment adaptations and childhood trauma to foster more secure attachment internally and with those you love. I’m the author of Heal Your Anxious Attachment and the host of the Psychotherapy Central Podcast, where we explore love, attachment and healing trauma.
“It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the …
If you grew up always putting others first, caregiving and parenting can feel deeply draining. Not because you are failing, but because your nervous system never learned what it feels like to be cared for. You may feel guilty taking …
Guilt can be a helpful emotion — when it’s grounded in truth. It’s meant to guide us back to our values. To show us when we’ve acted in a way that doesn’t align with who we want to be. But …
If you were pulled into your parents’ fights, you may have grown up feeling like it was your job to fix things. To soothe one parent. To protect the other. To stay quiet. Keep the peace. This is a form …
Breaking the cycle of parentification looks like: Learning that everyone’s well-being is not your responsibility. Resigning from your role as the family peacekeeper. It looks like reconnecting with your inner child. Letting yourself be playful. Curious. Free. It’s allowing support …
You know the signs. Tight chest. Racing thoughts. A sense that everything is too much. You try the breathing exercises. The affirmations. You know what’s supposed to help… but nothing seems to land when you need it most. Because nervous …
Many of us didn’t grow up with emotionally attuned parents. We were told to stop crying. That we were overreacting. That our fear, pain, or sadness wasn’t real enough to matter. So we learned to shut down. To doubt our …
If you grew up too fast, this might feel familiar… You were pulled into adult conflicts.You became a stand-in partner, a caregiver, a peacekeeper. You felt responsible for everyone.You looked after younger siblings.And somewhere along the way — you lost …
If you were a parentified child, you might still carry the weight of responsibility that was never yours to hold. You may find it hard to rest.Hard to ask for help.Hard to believe you’re worthy just as you are, without …
Some children grow up in homes where there isn’t enough care to go around. So they step in. They become the organiser, the emotional support, the caretaker. Not because they should. But because the system needs someone to hold it …