Communicating your needs is part of secure attachment. If you want to hear more about this đ§ listen to the full episode to explore what secure attachment looks, feels, and sounds likeâand why it matters. YouTube: Spotify: Love, Jen
Tag: Healing
Aiming for Secure Attachment
If you didnât grow up with secure attachment, it can feel like chasing something that you don’t have a clear idea of. So, letâs make it real. This is the felt sense of secure attachment. Itâs calm. Itâs steady. And …
What Secure Attachment Feels Like
In a secure relationship, your nervous systemâs resting place is in the ventral vagal stateâa branch of the parasympathetic nervous system associated with social engagement, safety, and calmness. The goal isnât to stay in this state all the time. Itâs …
A Bottom-Up Approach to Trauma
Top-Down vs Bottom-Up Healingâ When it comes to trauma therapy, the order matters.â â A top-down approach starts with the thinking brain (neocortex). Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is a good exampleâreframing thoughts to shift behaviour.â But hereâs the challenge: when youâre …
Connection and Trauma
When weâve experienced trauma, itâs common to want to pull away. To feel shame. To think, âI should be over this by now,â or âWhatâs wrong with me?â Confusion, anger, and self-judgment often followâand all of that is completely normal.âŁâŁBut …
Physical and Emotional Signs of Trauma
Thereâs no one ârightâ way to respond to trauma.âŁâŁYour response is normal for youâwhether itâs emotional, physical, or behavioural. Trauma can affect us all differently, and symptoms may show up in many ways, whether the event was big or small.âŁMost …
How do American Indianâs Heal Trauma?
As a psychotherapist and healer specialising in trauma, Iâve often found myself wonderingâhow do other cultures heal trauma? After all, trauma is not new. Throughout history, people have lived through war, illness, displacement, and abuse. So, how did our ancestors …
Causes of Psychological Trauma
Not all trauma is the same. And the type of trauma we experience can shape how we heal. Shock trauma is usually the result of a one-off, overwhelming eventâlike an accident or a sudden loss. It can cause intense emotional …
Book Review
So lovely to receive messages like this from people who have been impacted by the book. Thank you for taking the time to share with me Leigh. Love, Jen
Attachment Injuries with Dr Clare Rosoman
Last week, on the Psychotherapy Central podcast, I spoke with Dr Clare Rosoman about attachment injuries and just how wide-ranging they can be, and how they disrupt fundamental questions of emotional safety and trust. We then review the Attachment Injury …