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Jennifer Nurick

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HOw to build empathy. 1) Stand in someone else’s shoes – If someone is triggering you, imagine what might be going on for that person. What was their childhood like? What was their day like? How is the world through their eyes? 2) Curiosity about Strangers – Empathic people are inquisitive about other people; they talk to people outside of their social circle and stay long enough to move beyond the small talk. 3) Listen – Really be present to what is going on for the other person, not just to what is being said, but to how they are feeling. Share with the other person, be open. 4) Learn something new – This creates humility and more understanding of what it feels like to struggle. 5) Join a cause – working for a cause often brings together a variety of people, as we get to know others who are different from us, they become more human. 6) Diversify your social media intake – To ensure you are consuming varied perspectives on different issues. These are all valid ways to build empathy.

Building Empathy

Jennifer October 14, 2022

Many people either feel they have too much empathy or too little. When we have ‘too much empathy’, it is usually a boundary issue, not an empathy issue. For those people who feel they lack empathy, research has shown there …

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The importance of practicing empathy

The Importance of Practicing Empathy

Jennifer October 14, 2022

Empathy is the ability to understand how others are feeling and show compassion towards them. It is the ability to imagine what someone else’s life is like, to stand in their shoes and feel what they feel, from their point …

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Understanding Empathy

Understanding Empathy

Jennifer October 14, 2022

Empathy is the ability to understand how others are feeling and show compassion towards them. It is the ability to imagine what someone else’s life is like, to stand in their shoes and feel what they feel, from their point …

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Aspects of Emotional Intelligence

Aspects of Emotional Intelligence

Jennifer October 14, 2022

Socrates in Plato’s Apology was credited with saying “An unexamined life is not worth living”. This is at the core of self-awareness.  Self-awareness calls us to reflect on our words and actions, be curious about our triggers, and understand our …

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How We Learn Empathy How We Learn Empathy. If you grew up in an environment where the adults around you were inconsistent and unsafe, it might have been destabilising to stand in their shoes and to allow yourself to feel what they feel. It might have been safer to shut down to other people’s experiences that were too overwhelming for a child to handle or process. If this was the case it is NORMAL that EMPATHY might be difficult for you. As an adult, in a safe environment, empathy can be learned. Empathy is the ability to feel compassion for other people., it involves being sensitive to the feelings of others and reacting with that information in mind. If you have had children, you will know that in the early years children seem to have little compassion or ability to know what other people are experiencing. It is a skill which develops. Researchers have found that it is not a skill that can be developed in isolation, like walking, it is much more complex and requires appropriate modelling by adults and peers. It also requires us to be able to imagine and assess emotional experiences. So the good news it that it CAN be learnt.

How We Learn Empathy

Jennifer October 14, 2022

If we grew up with unsafe and unattuned caregivers, it is a NORMAL adaptation to be reticent to ‘stand in someone else’s shoes’ and allow yourself to feel empathy. Imagine having a mother who is an alcoholic. Most of the …

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Cultivating Emotional Intelligence Learning Assertive communication Learning to communicate in a direct way whilst respecting others.

Cultivating Emotional Intelligence

Jennifer October 14, 2022

Emotional quotient (EQ) is the ability to understand and process your emotions in a positive way to release stress, empathise with others, communicate effectively and work through conflicts. People with a high EQ have a high level of self-awareness and …

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SIGNIFICANCE OF EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE (EQ)

Significance of Emotional Intelligence (EQ)

Jennifer October 14, 2022

IQ counts for a lot, but research shows that people with a high IQ are NOT the most fulfilled or the most successful. Maybe you know people who are really smart, but struggle socially and in intimate relationships?  IQ will …

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Significant EQ abilities are…

Significant EQ Abilities Are…

Jennifer October 14, 2022

The ability to perceive emotions is something we learn in childhood. When my son was about 9, he went through a phase of about two months where he would regularly ask me if I was feeling angry. He would say: …

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The 5 Key Components of Emotional Intelligence (EQ)

The 5 Key Components of Emotional Intelligence (EQ)

Jennifer October 14, 2022

Emotional intelligence, emotional quotient (EQ), is the ability to understand and process your emotions in a positive way to release stress, empathise with others, communicate effectively and work through conflicts.  Researchers have spent a lot of time focusing on the …

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“Emotional intelligence has become widely recognized as an important predictor of a child’s success later in life.” – Gottman, J. & Silver, N. (2015).

Importance of Emotional Intelligence

Jennifer September 26, 2022

Children can learn emotional intelligence and so can couples. What is emotional intelligence (emotional quotient or EQ)? EQ is the ability to understand and process your emotions in a positive way to release stress, empathise with others, communicate effectively and …

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