If you would like to know how to work with this as a couple, check out my book ‘Heal Your Anxious Attachment’. by Jennifer Nurick The second half of the book is about working with insecure attachment as a couple.
I am also a licensed clinical psychotherapist and couple therapist based in Sydney, Australia, and I see clients online globally. If you would like to do some work as a couple, book a couple of therapy sessions here.