What spoken and unspoken rules did you grow up with that determined your acceptability and sense of belonging? Here are a few of mine: As a child, if we follow the family rules, we are accepted and loved, and there …
Tag: attachment theory
The Anxious-Avoidant Dynamic – Can it work?
This is one of the main dynamics that brings couples into therapy. It is the Anxious-Avoidant Cycle. So, what exactly is the Anxious-Avoidant Cycle, how does it work, and how do we perpetuate it? We also tackle the big question: …
How To Spot Attracting Unavailable Men
Being in a cycle of attracting avoidant or unavailable people is painful. Over time, it affects your self-esteem and can make you feel like you are going crazy. In this episode, Jen gives you three steps on how to break …
Six Reasons You Are Attracted to Avoidant or Unavailable Men
Have you ever felt frustrated at yourself for choosing yet ANOTHER unavailable partner? Maybe he is married or lives in another state or country. Maybe he is dating you, but he seems to be married to his work, mother or …
Disorganised Attachment Explained
In this episode, you will learn everything you need to know about the disorganised attachment style, including: Available on Apple Podcast and Spotify
The Podcast Launch
And we are LIVE!!!! Launching Psychotherapy Central – The Podcast: Love, Attachment and Healing Trauma! I have posted the first two episodes: EP1 – Five Things You Need to Know About Attachment Theory EP 2 – Avoidant Attachment Explained They …
Does Your Attachment Style Dictate the Outcome of Your Relationship?
In this live, I cover whether your attachment style will dictate the outcome of your relationship.
What is Insecure Attachment in Adulthood?
Insecure attachment styles can impact various aspects of adult relationships, including communication, trust, emotional intimacy, and conflict resolution. These attachment patterns are not set in stone and can be influenced by later life experiences, therapy, and self-awareness. Understanding your attachment …
Building Secure attachment
There are two main parts to building secure attachment. The first step is to build what I call internal secure attachment. When you have an internal secure attachment, you know at your very core that you will be there for …