Resuming normal life post-trauma can be a vital step in healing, grounding us back in our daily routines and connections. However, when trauma is ongoing or deeply distressing, our psyche might create a protective layer, telling us, "It wasn't that …
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The Ties That Bind Us
“The Ties That Bind” delves into the heart of anxious attachment in dating, unraveling the complex emotions and behaviors that tether us in a dance of closeness and anxiety. Join us as we explore the labyrinth of need and nurture …
Trauma Treatment Collective Podcast
This was a wonderful conversation with Nina, another incredible therapist with a focus on trauma and healing. If you have some time, check out our conversation: Love Jen x
Children Need Protection
As a trauma therapist, I can’t overemphasise how important protection is for our children. If you know your threat detector is too sensitive or not sensitive enough, check in with someone you trust. Let me know what you think in …
Understanding Insecure Attachment: Signs and Solutions
Healing is a journey, and it’s never too late to start.
Why Anxiously Attached People Get Loud to Feel Safe
Getting louder is a common strategy for those with an anxious attachment style. It’s a way to seek attention, to be noticed, and to feel a sense of connection. If this sounds familiar, know that you’re not alone. Many of …
The Health Benefits of Secure Attachment – According To The Research
The health benefits of secure attachment. according to the research 1) lower levels of stress and anxiety, This stems from their stable and trusting relationships, which provide a reliable support network that acts as a buffer against psychological distress. 2) …
Mindset of Secure Attachment Podcast
This episode delves into how developing a secure attachment can significantly enhance your relationships and self-awareness as we explore five key aspects of secure attachment. Listen to the Psychotherapy Central podcast through Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Let me know what …
Breaking the Cycle of Failed Marriages
Marriage, often seen as the pinnacle of a romantic relationship, can sometimes become a cycle of mistakes and heartaches for those who find themselves repeating patterns leading to failed relationships. However, there is hope. With self-awareness, understanding, and actionable steps, …
Examples of Intergenerational Legacy Burdens
Some of the burdens that came through my lineage: Some of these are not spoken about but are communicated clearly through what is praised and accepted in the family and what is looked down on, criticised or rejected. What would …