I was so moved by how many of you shared your stories of traumatic births with me earlier in the week. Birth trauma might sound like this: I wish we were talking about this more. So – how do we …
Category: Relationships
Checking In
Ask each other, ‘How are you really doing? What’s on your mind?’ Listen with empathy, without rushing to solve or judge.” When do you do this as a couple?
Mastermind Course
Spend 10 hours with me and change the way you relate internally FOREVER! ‘Build Secure Attachment Mastermind’ If you want more connection in your intimate relationships and to break out of the repeating cycles of distress, this is for you! …
A Tool For Repair
The added bonus with this is that your kids learn by example. When they see you have a re-do, they learn that they can and will make mistakes, and it really is okay because there is a way to repair …
Psych for Life Podcast
Have you ever wondered why a work collegue or boss has you feeling like you’re dealing with a family member? It’s not as crazy as it sounds. In this episode of Psych for Life, I talk about: …and much more! …
Secure Attachment Grows in Small Moments
Every little look, every quiet word, every shared smile between you and your partner is a thread in the tapestry of your connection. It’s the daily, gentle moments that build a secure attachment, not just the grand declarations. In the …
Words of Connection
Try sharing some appreciation today and let me know how you go Appreciation is a cornerstone of any strong and connected relationship. Expressing appreciation regularly not only makes your partner feel valued and loved but also strengthens the emotional bond …
You Don’t Have to be Fully Healed to Have a Fulfilling Relationship
Healing isn’t a prerequisite for love; it’s a journey you embark on together. You don’t have to be fully healed to find or nurture a fulfilling relationship. What matters is the commitment to grow, to learn, and to evolve as …
Isolation and Primal Panic
Addressing the shame that arises from anxious attachment requires a compassionate understanding of its roots and a gentle approach to self-exploration and healing. Therapy, particularly forms that focus on attachment and healing trauma, can be pivotal in helping you unpack …