Do you bury yourself in work when things get tough? It’s common when avoidant attachment patterns are at play.
When you feel threatened, you overwork to feel safe. Why? Work gives you a sense of accomplishment and predictability, unlike relationships, which can be unpredictable. You feel more confident at work than when dealing with intense emotions.
However, overworking can create a barrier to intimacy. Understanding why you do this can help you better balance your work and relationships.