Let me know your thoughts in the comments. Take care of yourselves wherever you are. Love, Jen
Tag: psychotherapy
Early Relationship
It is common to have many questions and no answers during this phase. Do they like me? How much do I like them? Are we compatible? Will I like their friends and family? What would my friends and family think …
If You Want To Improve The World, Start By Making Yourself And Others Feel Safe.
Imagine a world where we are each conscious of the level of felt safety in our body at any moment. Imagine a world where we can bring ourselves into a felt sense of safety (when it is appropriate and we …
Core Issues For Adopted Adults
Over the years, I have worked with many adopted adults, all with different stories. Without exception, I’ve found there has been healing to do around the moment of birth, which is about our connection to the Earth and our bodies, …
Family Patterns
This is HOW we repeat intergenerational cycles. We repeat what we grew up with. Deciding to do something different is BRAVE.And often, there is no other option because it has become SO uncomfortable.This is a great time to get support …
Un- Resolved Issues Affect The Present
This is why we end up repeating cycles in our relationships. We unconsciously repeat aspects of our childhood that remain unprocessed in our current relationship—usually the most intimate relationship, whether that is a friendship or partnership. I love to look …
Notice What’s Already Okay
Sometimes I notice that I’m over-focused on what isn’t working or what I think is wrong. It seems that all of the okay things vanish from my awareness in those moments. When I bring them back, even one small thing, …
A Powerful Quote From Stephen Porges.
Trauma is so much more than psychological. Trauma is physiological too. I am so grateful to Stephen Porges and Bessel van Der Kolk for their work in bringing this to the forefront and increasing our understanding of the impact of …
The Couple Bubble as the Secure Home Base
What’s your experience of being in a ‘couple bubble’? Let me know in the comments. Love, Jen