On the surface, avoidant behaviour can look like disinterest, withdrawal, or emotional distance.But underneath… it’s often a different story. Avoidantly attached people do have deep emotional needs—just like everyone else.They’ve just learned, often very early in life, that expressing those …
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We Aren’t Responsible for Other People’s Emotions
You don’t get to hurt someone and walk away with clean hands.Love means repair.Love means care.Love means being a fierce protector of your partner’s heart, even when it’s hard. Especially when it’s hard. Let’s raise the standard for what emotional …
What Avoidants Really Need From You
While avoidantly attached individuals may appear self-sufficient and distant, they harbour deep emotional needs that they often find challenging to express. In this episode, Jen explores: Enjoy the episode – I loved writing and recording it!
How Does Healing The Past Help in the Present?
The past affects the present in many ways. It might be how you expect your partner to take out the garbage or how you expect to be responded to when you ask for help. There are lots of reasons that …
Ask Yourself, Does This Belong To Me
Sending love to your ancestors and you. May you feel the gifts of your ancestors. Love, Jen
Ask Yourself, Does This *Anger / Pain / Grief* Belong To Me?
For me, it was anxiety. I always felt a low level of anxiety in the background and wondered where it had come from. As an adult, I could see that same anxiety in my parents. It was their anxiety, and …
Holistic Health & YOUR Healing Journey
On your healing journey, you will feel drawn to different modalities and areas of focus at various times. Trust that. Trust that your inner wisdom will guide you in the right direction. With you on your healing journey Love, Jen
Relational Safety
If you’ve ever felt unsafe in a relationship, you’ll know how important this is… Safety isn’t just a bonus—it’s the essential foundation for connection. Without feeling physically, emotionally, and psychologically secure, nothing else can truly flourish. Have you experienced relationships …
Healthy Relationship
A healthy relationship isn’t about losing yourself—it’s about growing together, cheering each other on, and helping one another become the best versions of yourselves. who’s your best supporter Love Jen