Hi! I’m Jen. I’m so glad you’re here.
I’m a licensed clinical psychotherapist, couple counsellor and energetic healer who has developed a unique, integrated, and personalised process for helping individuals and couples heal from attachment adaptations and childhood trauma to foster more secure attachment internally and with those you love. I’m the author of Heal Your Anxious Attachment and the host of the Psychotherapy Central Podcast, where we explore love, attachment and healing trauma.
No Bad Parts – Everything you need to know about Internal Family Systems (IFS)
No Bad Parts is the name of Richard Schwartz’s book on Internal Family Systems (IFS). In it he describes the foundation of his modality and how it works. All parts need and deserve love, compassion and understanding. They are all …
The 5 Stages of a relationship
Reminder: it is NORMAL to have conflict in a relationship. Excellent relationship researchers, the Gottman’s, discovered that it was not the number of disputes that determined if a relationship was robust or not, but how the couple resolved the conflict.Notice …
6 Best Trauma Books From A Licensed Therapist
Over the years, I have collected a few – these are the stand-outs. Notice that there is a lot of Peter Levine, the founder of Somatic Experiencing. His books contain deep insight into the nature of trauma and how to …
Mother’s Day Quotes
A FREE gift for you on Mother’s Day. I wrote this for people who have struggled with their relationship with their mothers over the years. In it, you will find ✨SIX STEPS TO HEALING THE MOTHER WOUND✨. At the …
Mother’s Day Free Gift
A FREE gift for you on Mother’s Day. I wrote this for people who have struggled with their relationship with their mothers over the years. In it, you will find ✨SIX STEPS TO HEALING THE MOTHER WOUND✨. At the moment, …
Mother’s Day
If this resonates with you, you will love my FREE gift to you this Mother’s Day – my ‘Heal the Mother Wound’ e-book.In it, you will find:6 steps you can take to heal the “mother wound”identify the ‘mother wound’identify your …
Safe Haven
All relationships go through ups and downs. When you iron out all the ups and down, be in a in a relationship that feels like a safe haven from the world outside.
We Need More Empathic People In Leadership Roles
I would love to see more empathy in leadership. Empathy—the ability to understand and share another person’s feelings—is not just a nice-to-have; it’s a must-have in leadership today. Empathic leaders are pivotal because they create environments where trust and cooperation …
Couple Conversations
Conversations with the people closest to us can sometimes be the most difficult. This structured approach can help you navigate your conversations with more empathy and understanding, fostering a stronger emotional connection, which can be the foundation of a secure …
The More Assertive You Become, The Less Resentful You Will Feel.
So many people ask me, “How do I become more assertive?” Being assertive involves facing your fears—whether it’s the fear of rejection, being laughed at, or dismissed. Remember, the more assertive you become, the less resentful you will feel. It’s …