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Things That Prevent Us From Talking About Birth Trauma

Things that prevent us from talking about birth trauma I have a beautiful, healthy baby. Who am I to complain? I feel shame that my body let me down, and I don't want to talk about it. Everyone has a bad time with birth - I should be over this. When I talk about my experience, people don’t know what to say, so what’s the point It was my fault because I made a wrong decision/didn't communicate well etc.

In research into traumatic birthing experiences, they found that “Women attribute their traumatic childbirth experience primarily to lack and/or loss of control, issues of communication, and practical/emotional support. They believe that in many cases, their trauma could have been reduced or prevented by better communication and support by their caregiver or if they themselves had asked for or refused interventions.”

So much of the process can be traumatic. From the onset of labour to weeks after. 

So – how do we heal birth trauma? If you are interested in knowing how I worked with my birth trauma, I will be sending out a newsletter later today with what worked for me. 

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I hope you find it helpful

Jen


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