I’m guilty of worrying about my kids. In Western culture, worrying about our kids is part of the norm. But when does worry become too much? It’s too much when it feels overwhelming and all-consuming, when you can’t focus on …
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The Mixed Messages About Parental Worry
There are so many mixed messages about parental worry. I often hear parents say that they are worried about their children and then say “I know I’m not supposed to be worried. That’s not good for me, or the child”. …
Book Review From A Therapist
I continue to read books to recommend to my clients as a helpful, solid book on how their childhood attachment dynamics impact their relationships as an adult and this one is a solid one. This book focuses on reparenting your …
Book Review
Anyone who has ever written a book will know it is nerve-wracking as the reviews come in, so it is lovely to hear how it this book has impacted people. Thank you for your kind words. Shining love out there …
6 Reasons You’re Attracted to Avoidant People
You’re probably reading this because you are frustrated at yourself for choosing another unavailable partner. Maybe he is married, or he lives in another state or country. Perhaps he is dating you, but he seems to be married to his …
Why Avoidantly Attached People Withdraw
Ever notice how some people just shut down during conflicts? When Avoidantly Attached People feel threatened, they WITHDRAW to feel SAFE. Your nervous system tends to rest more in hyperarousal; it’s like your body’s way of shutting down when overwhelmed. …
8 Signs You Probably Need Therapy
In my early 20s, I moved to a new country with my partner. I was away from my friends and family, and it was a tough time with a lot of challenges. That’s when I made the decision to go …
Ever Find Yourself Agreeing To Keep The Peace
If you find yourself appeasing your partner over and over again you risk growing resentment in the relationship. Instead of agreeing with everything, try these steps: Have a great week, Big hugs, Jen
Overworking to Avoid Emotions
Do you bury yourself in work when things get tough? You OVERWORK when you feel threatened to feel SAFE. Work gives you a sense of accomplishment and predictability, unlike relationships. You feel more confident at work than dealing with intense …
Interview With Body & Soul
I’m a therapist and go to Therapy. Here is why everyone should go.’ By Rachael Martin. This was such an interesting conversation with Rach full article here