It is common to have many questions and no answers during this phase. Do they like me? How much do I like them? Are we compatible? Will I like their friends and family? What would my friends and family think of them?
This phase of dating has some kind of angst for most securely attached people and the insecurely attached. If you are feeling this early relationship angst, it might not be an attachment wound being triggered. It might be the common experience of uncertainty and how we meet that uncertainty within ourselves.
What can help me tolerate and befriend this new feeling of uncertainty? What does my younger part of self need from me while experiencing this increased uncertainty?
Love to all,
Jen
