Author: Jennifer
Why Avoidantly Attached People Withdraw
Ever notice how some people just shut down during conflicts? When Avoidantly Attached People feel threatened, they WITHDRAW to feel SAFE. Your nervous system tends to rest more in hyperarousal; it’s like your body’s way of shutting down when overwhelmed. …
8 Signs You Probably Need Therapy
In my early 20s, I moved to a new country with my partner. I was away from my friends and family, and it was a tough time with a lot of challenges. That’s when I made the decision to go …
Interview With Body & Soul
I’m a therapist and go to Therapy. Here is why everyone should go.’ By Rachael Martin. This was such an interesting conversation with Rach full article here
Children Need Protection
As a trauma therapist, I can’t overemphasise how important protection is for our children. If you know your threat detector is too sensitive or not sensitive enough, check in with someone you trust. Let me know what you think in …
An Intimacy Killer for the Avoiantly Attached
Ever find yourself in a heated argument, and suddenly you switch into ‘logic mode’? When avoidantly attached people feel threatened, they often get all LOGICAL to feel SAFE. When you become logical, you feel your body less. This helps you …