Research in relationships shows that men find it more difficult than women to accept influence from their partners (see J. Gottman’s research). But, let’s face it, we can all love to win, and we are living in a culture that …
Tag: perfectionism
Having To Be Right
Have you ever been in a relationship with someone who has to be right all the time? It can be so frustrating. Even when there is evidence that they are wrong, they won’t openly say, “oh, I was wrong”, they …
Perfect is Safe – But at What Cost?
I know that feeling of wanting to be perfect. I feel it when I’m producing all of my content; when I’m doing videos, or writing, it’s my way of hiding. When I’m busy trying to be perfect, I can’t just …