Do you bury yourself in work when things get tough? It’s common when avoidant attachment patterns are at play. When you feel threatened, you overwork to feel safe. Why? Work gives you a sense of accomplishment and predictability, unlike relationships, …
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Children Need Protection
As a trauma therapist, I can’t overemphasise how important protection is for our children. If you know your threat detector is too sensitive or not sensitive enough, check in with someone you trust. Let me know what you think in …
An Intimacy Killer for the Avoiantly Attached
Ever find yourself in a heated argument, and suddenly you switch into ‘logic mode’? When avoidantly attached people feel threatened, they often get all LOGICAL to feel SAFE. When you become logical, you feel your body less. This helps you …
Understanding Insecure Attachment: Signs and Solutions
Healing is a journey, and it’s never too late to start.
Why Anxiously Attached People Get Loud to Feel Safe
Getting louder is a common strategy for those with an anxious attachment style. It’s a way to seek attention, to be noticed, and to feel a sense of connection. If this sounds familiar, know that you’re not alone. Many of …
I Get LOUDER To Be Noticed
If you want to hear more about anxious attachment behaviours, you can listen to my recent release, Ep 30 – Understanding Anxious Attachment Behaviours, on Apple Podcast, Spotify or through the PsychotherapyCentral.Health website. Enjoy! Xx Jen
The Health Benefits of Secure Attachment – According To The Research
The health benefits of secure attachment. according to the research 1) lower levels of stress and anxiety, This stems from their stable and trusting relationships, which provide a reliable support network that acts as a buffer against psychological distress. 2) …
Mindset of Secure Attachment Podcast
This episode delves into how developing a secure attachment can significantly enhance your relationships and self-awareness as we explore five key aspects of secure attachment. Listen to the Psychotherapy Central podcast through Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Let me know what …
Mindset of Secure Attachment
The Mindset of Secure Attachment To listen to the full episode of our podcast, Psychotherapy Central (episode 29), head to my website, or listen on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Enjoy! Love, Jen and if you want to have a deep …
Breaking the Cycle of Failed Marriages
Marriage, often seen as the pinnacle of a romantic relationship, can sometimes become a cycle of mistakes and heartaches for those who find themselves repeating patterns leading to failed relationships. However, there is hope. With self-awareness, understanding, and actionable steps, …