Tag: Overt shame

here was nothing wrong with your childhood. You were the problem You don't remember your childhood properly Are you ashamed of us? You don't understand our family People have it a lot worse than you You are to blame for all the problems in the family You are going to lose the family How could you do this after everything we sacrificed for you? You have always been too sensitive Look at what you are doing to your mother/father etc

How Cycle Breakers Are Shamed in their family

Jennifer April 8, 2021

Being a cycle breaker is often exhausting because it takes energy to stand up and do something different from what has always been done in the family. You might notice ‘looks’ being passed between members or eye-rolling as you express …