Creating a Secure Attachment Style – Corrective Experience (Part 8)
Is it SAFE to securely attach to my partner? This is the first question to consider when you have one of the three insecure…
Is it SAFE to securely attach to my partner? This is the first question to consider when you have one of the three insecure…
Repair – this is what we are engaged in when we are working with any of the three styles of insecure attachment. The mother…
Many of us spend years in confusion, anger and grief about the mother relationship, trying to make sense of what happened. The relationship with…
Warning – this is a bit controversial. When we have one of the three insecure attachment styles, we have what I like to think…
I like to think of the mind as a piece of play dough that can be moulded over time. It is so easy to…
Usually we are subconsciously looking to the world to affirm our deepest beliefs about ourselves. This happens in a part of our brain called…
DEVELOPING A COHERENT NARRATIVE ABOUT OUR LIFE. “Writing about important personal experiences in an emotional way for as little as 15 minutes over the…
How can I ‘re-parent’ my inner child? I know this part of me is present a lot in my life – but how do…
As children our brains are growing at a furious rate, the neurons are connecting and the brain is being wired, literally, for relationship and…
One of the ways you can create your own secure base internally and heal from the experience of having an insecure external home base…