If you are wondering if you are In Limmerence, it could be time to have a reality check.
- Are they honest?
- Are they transparent?
- Do they hold themselves accountable?
- Do they live morally? Are your values aligned?
- Do you feel like you are a team?
A few others:
- Do they seem to have close relationships with family or friends?
- How do they speak to you? Do they build you up or tear you down?
- Do they make you feel good about yourself, e.g. saying kind things.
- Are they respectful and caring?
- When you are upset, do they criticise or move forward to comfort you?
Relationships can be complex. I hope these questions help you in some way.
Wherever you are on your healing journey, know that you are not alone.
So much love to you all,