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Tag: Family

How Are Cycle Breakers Shamed in Their Family?
There are often comments which, when boiled down, ask, “Why can’t you just be more like us?” When cycle breakers emerge, the resistance is usually overt AND covert. Overt in the things said to you and covert in the things …

Can Having Siblings Be Harmful To Your Health?
“Your siblings can affect your physical and mental health more than you might imagine. A recent study published in the Journal of Family Issues analyzed the relationship between family size and siblings’ mental health in the U.S. and China and …

What I Will Always Tell My Children
When you are a secure ‘home base’ for your kids, they always know they can come to you when things get rough. The more kids that have this kind of support, the better.If this is something you would like your …

Children Need Protection
As a trauma therapist, I can’t overemphasise how important protection is for our children. If you know your threat detector is too sensitive or not sensitive enough, check in with someone you trust. Let me know what you think in …

Mother’s Day Free Gift
A FREE gift for you on Mother’s Day. I wrote this for people who have struggled with their relationship with their mothers over the years. In it, you will find ✨SIX STEPS TO HEALING THE MOTHER WOUND✨. At the moment, …

Mother’s Day
If this resonates with you, you will love my FREE gift to you this Mother’s Day – my ‘Heal the Mother Wound’ e-book.In it, you will find:6 steps you can take to heal the “mother wound”identify the ‘mother wound’identify your …

Tell Your Family History
When things are a family secret, other members of the family often know that something isn’t right. When the secret is revealed, there is often a sense of ‘Ah…now so much in my life makes sense!’ When a member of …

Signs Therapy Could Be Useful
It is time to end the stigma of mental health and get support when you need it. You deserve to be supported wherever you are at. As humans, we are social creatures. We were never meant to have it all …