Responsiveness is a Love Language
When our partners are not responsive, it can feel like we are playing tennis with no one hitting the ball back. It quickly gets…
When our partners are not responsive, it can feel like we are playing tennis with no one hitting the ball back. It quickly gets…
Responsiveness is a subtle form of communication and is a love language. When you respond to me reaching out for connection, the connection is…
A snippet from my live session ‘Attachment Explained’ last week. Whenever we are discussing adaptations, I feel a warmth in my heart, that for…
The trick for the anxiously attached person is to let the gratitude in. And that’s a journey. When our life has shown us that…
Feel free to share this with your partner! You are allowed to ask for reassurance – reassurance = safety. The most important thing about…
Clip from the live session last week explaining attachment.
Wow – the power of consistency with an anxiously attached person. It is like drinking a cool glass of water on a hot day…
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