We all know those uncomfortable few minutes after a heated discussion. The argument's energy is hanging in the air, and you are both processing what was said. If your trauma response has been activated, you might be calming your nervous …
Category: Relationships
Episode 35: Unlocking Relationship Patterns
the pursuer-withdrawer pattern in relationships, a dynamic that can significantly impact relationship satisfaction and longevity. Dr. Ferguson shares her journey into psychology and hypnotherapy, offering deep insights into how these modalities can aid in self-discovery and healing.
Amanda Ferguson
Another great conversation with Dr Amanda Ferguson, someone who has traveled a similar path of healing to me. Listen to this episode to learn: Here’s the link to the podcast: Love Jen X
The Ties That Bind Us
“The Ties That Bind” delves into the heart of anxious attachment in dating, unraveling the complex emotions and behaviors that tether us in a dance of closeness and anxiety. Join us as we explore the labyrinth of need and nurture …
Marry Someone Who…
This is for my future self, who will have a beautiful garden to tend. I dream of an English garden, but they are difficult to maintain and water in Australia.
Trauma Treatment Collective Podcast
This was a wonderful conversation with Nina, another incredible therapist with a focus on trauma and healing. If you have some time, check out our conversation: Love Jen x
Book Review From A Therapist
I continue to read books to recommend to my clients as a helpful, solid book on how their childhood attachment dynamics impact their relationships as an adult and this one is a solid one. This book focuses on reparenting your …
Book Review
Anyone who has ever written a book will know it is nerve-wracking as the reviews come in, so it is lovely to hear how it this book has impacted people. Thank you for your kind words. Shining love out there …
What I Will Always Tell My Children
When you are a secure ‘home base’ for your kids, they always know they can come to you when things get rough. The more kids that have this kind of support, the better.If this is something you would like your …
6 Reasons You’re Attracted to Avoidant People
You’re probably reading this because you are frustrated at yourself for choosing another unavailable partner. Maybe he is married, or he lives in another state or country. Perhaps he is dating you, but he seems to be married to his …