Have you ever fallen into the trap of thinking that once you’ve “healed enough,” life will be perfect?
You’ll have the perfect job aligned with your purpose, the perfect relationship, the sun will shine daily, and strangers will hand you money as you walk down the street.
It’s easy—especially with social media—to buy into the illusion that everyone else has it all figured out. You see the curated highlight reels and start to wonder if you’re behind. Maybe you’ve even put others on pedestals and felt like you don’t quite measure up.
But here’s what I’ve learned: real growth isn’t about living a perfect life—it’s about how we meet the messy, beautiful reality of being human.
It shows up in the quiet wins.
When someone says something that would’ve triggered you, and instead of reacting, you feel compassion.
When you make a mistake and meet yourself with kindness instead of criticism.
These are the moments to celebrate.
That’s what growth really looks like.
